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Ingredients of happy relationships
Mix them together for results


I have been discussing the importance of thinking through a couple of issues. First and foremost is asking a set of key parameters that determine the value of a relationship to you, and secondly, asking the right questions to assess your relationship. Continues below  




-In this article, I am going to discuss the little things that you ignore and think are not important that will make your relationships work. 

Communication is key. Learn to talk about everything under the sun and never assume you know. You could be wrong. Many people have failed in this area and ended up depressed, lost, and lonely. Believe me; it always helps to talk about something than bottling it up inside of you. Lack of communication will cause you to make wrong conclusions about people and you will never even get a chance to know who you are. When you hear a rumor, donít act on it immediately. Find the facts first, before you take any action. Explaining your thoughts, motives, and plans is very vital. Donít use guesswork; itís unwise. We have ears to hear, eyes too see, hands to make signs, books to read, etc., to be able to get a message across.


Sacrifice in a relationship is the key to reaping good results eventually. It works in everything else in life and it will work in a relationship too. You have to learn to sacrifice certain things in your life for the sake of your partner and for the sake of the relationship to work. If you donít learn to sacrifice, you will think there is nothing wrong with you, but only with the other person. You cannot spend your life changing partners or looking for the perfect one. None of us is perfect but we can work at becoming better people as we appreciate one another.


Life if about giving and not taking! Learn to start giving and you will soon see the results. Donít wait until itís Christmas or until you get that job and earn a lot of bucks. Out of the little that you have, give. When you fail to give now when you have little, it will not be possible to give when you have plenty. Itís the thought and the value of that gift that counts. Believe me; if itís from you heart it will be of value to the other person and they will cherish it. 

The question is, ďWould you like to die all by yourself without a loved one to hold your hand? How would you feel when you get sick and there is nobody to come visit you in the hospital? If you invest in good, you will receive good back.

Read second part: more ingredients for a happy relationship

By Imfwama Wotela
 Imfwama is a freelance writer.  She lives in Africa. 



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